Reflections on co-dependence
After a while you learn the subtle difference Between holding a hand and chaining a soul, And you learn that love doesn’t mean leaning...
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Fe Robinson
Apr 15, 20232 min read
Anger is not the whole story
Anger is a healthy, positive emotion that is a message to let us know that our boundaries have been transgressed, or that something has...
Fe Robinson
Mar 3, 20231 min read
Be fluid and imperfect
I took part in some training a short while ago that finished with the wonderful invitation to be fluid, and imperfect. The trainer was...
Fe Robinson
Jan 5, 20232 min read
Only offer what you can freely give
So much of human relating is transactional. We live in an economy where most everything has a price. We expect to pay to receive...
Fe Robinson
Nov 25, 20221 min read
Reinvigorating your relationship
I was asked on social media recently to talk about how to overcome boredom in relationships. Here’s a blog extending the soundbites I had...
Fe Robinson
Nov 19, 20222 min read
The fear of receiving
“The fear of receiving resonates in the deepest levels of the psyche. To receive is to let life happen, to open to grief and loss, to...
Fe Robinson
Oct 21, 20222 min read
Power and love are quite different
“Recognising the difference between power and love is difficult if we were raised in a home where power was disguised as love” Marion...
Fe Robinson
Oct 8, 20221 min read
The Journey
My inspiration this weekend is Mary Oliver’s The Journey. Wishing you a weekend enlivened and uplifted by your own journeying. One day...
Fe Robinson
Jul 1, 20222 min read
Relational ruptures take time to heal
A theme in therapeutic work is the way relationships can rupture and repair. Both for couples, and for individuals, this is often a...
Fe Robinson
May 31, 20222 min read
Don't abandon yourself, ever
When I heard the phrase ‘don’t abandon yourself’ recently, it resonated deeply. It struck me as I pondered that it’s easy sometimes to...
Fe Robinson
Mar 11, 20222 min read
Leaving well
I want to reflect today on the idea of leaving well. So often in modern living I hear stories of people disappearing from the lives of...
Fe Robinson
Oct 15, 20212 min read
Re-finding your intimate connection
A consistent theme bringing couples into couples counselling is the loss of their sense of togetherness, a loss of intimacy. I often...
Fe Robinson
Sep 17, 20212 min read
How attuned are you?
It’s hard to beat the feeling of really being with someone. That feeling of parent and child spontaneously connecting in an experience. ...
Fe Robinson
Aug 15, 20212 min read
Reflections on self-love
I was reading some Esther Perel this week, and happened upon a quote about self-love that really spoke to me. She describes it as “about...
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