Fe RobinsonApr 31 min readWired for connectionExtending trust can be a risky business, and it’s often worth it. We have a choice with trust, we can grant it, or we can wait until...
Fe RobinsonMay 12, 20232 min readThe link between dissociation and attachmentDissociation can be a challenging psychological symptom to work with. When dissociated, people experience themselves less directly. ...
Fe RobinsonNov 19, 20222 min readThe fear of receiving“The fear of receiving resonates in the deepest levels of the psyche. To receive is to let life happen, to open to grief and loss, to...
Fe RobinsonJun 17, 20222 min readSpotting patterns in how you communicateIn recent months I have been delving into Brown and Elliott’s comprehensive book about Attachment Disturbances in Adults. It’s a...
Fe RobinsonMay 20, 20221 min readThe Abyss of TraumaMy weekend poem this week is called The Abyss. I wrote it in 2011. It speaks of trauma, of the fragmentation inside that happens when...
Fe RobinsonJan 28, 20222 min readThe experiences we need to enable feelings of security and safetyI’ve recently been reading Daniel Brown and David Elliott’s work about attachment difficulties, which focuses on how to help adults who...
Fe RobinsonNov 25, 20213 min readMy relationship is not working...what's wrong with me?!When people come into therapy to talk about relationship problems, they often feel that there must be something wrong with them. This is...
Fe RobinsonMay 14, 20211 min readGabor Mate on addiction and attachmentHere’s a short clip of Gabor Mate talking about addiction, which he defines as “any behaviour that a person finds relief from and...