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“All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being...

Here is a link to my latest newsletter. https://shoutout.wix.com/so/49Ov1knBR?languageTag=en In this edition you will find information a...

If you’re thinking of working with a therapist, it’s a good idea to be clear about what is prompting you, and what you want to have...

I’ve recently submitted my 5-year re-accreditation to UKCP, the professional body for psychotherapists in the UK.  I was a touch nervous,...

Being authentic is the key to a happy intimate relationship.  You do not need to pretend to be anything you are not.  You will thrive in...

It is an irony that so often clients come into psychotherapy hoping that I have the answers to their difficulties, when the only person...

“In order for a child to become kind, giving and empathetic, he needs to be treated that way…A child raised with love wants to make those...

Metaphors are powerful.  When we think of one thing in terms of another that symbolises or represents it, the resulting metaphor is...

Responsibility can be a tricky concept to work with in psychotherapy.  It is a double edged sword.  On the one side, it is a given that a...

However much Hollywood or Disney persuade otherwise, it’s not realistic to believe you can have a relationship and not have any conflict...

“A life truly lived constantly burns away veils of illusion, burns away what is no longer relevant, gradually reveals our essence, until,...

“Psychotherapy is about helping clients to tolerate what they are feeling, not about having them tell stories” Bessel Van De Kolk Whether...

If you’re thinking of working with a therapist, it’s a good idea to be clear about what is prompting you, and what you want to have...

Working as a psychotherapist, I have a pretty continual stream of relationships that begin, and end. It’s a natural feature of my work...

I had a lovely reminder a few weeks ago of the importance of enabling clients to bring their whole self into the therapy room. It’s...

“Offer what you have to offer Offer it with love Let go of having it work” I heard this lovely sentiment many, many years ago at an NLP...

“Offer what you have to offer Offer it with love Let go of having it work” I heard this lovely sentiment many, many years ago at an NLP...

I really enjoy my role as a psychotherapist working with individuals and couples. Not only do I have the opportunity to sit down with a...

Today I want to write about the importance of regular reviews when psychotherapy becomes long term. Many clients come into therapy with...

One of the commitments I have as a psychotherapist is that I am real and authentic with my clients. For me, this is the basis of...